The Boyfriend Objection

Well I think its official. I know what the number one rejection line is in today's world of men pursuing women. Guy asks girl out and she replies with the dreaded and commonly used "Sorry, I have a boyfriend"

Damn I wish I had a dollar for every time I heard a girl say that. I not only had those words directed towards me but have also witnessed this happening to others on a regular basis.

I think this speaks to the fact that girls and people in general are polite and friendly. This is obviously a girls polite and sensitive way to say "No Thanks". When a girl says this to you, it usually means one of two things. A.) She really DOES have a boyfriend and isn't interested in you or B.) She DOES NOT have a boyfriend and still isn't interested in you.

Now in some cases, its what we call a "test" girls will sometimes say use this line even when interested in the guy. Partly because they are used to saying it, its kind of an autopilot response but its more so a test to see if the guy will run away with his tail between his legs. Girls want to see how you handle a rejection, are you confident? charming?, stable?, etc. Its just unconscious screening on their part. So sometimes it pays to stick in there and be playfully persistent

I will now share with you some things you can say in response to the "I have a boyfriend" line. This of course is meant to to help you display some charm and leave the interaction is a more noble way, it will eliminate any awkwardness as well as provide a pleasant surprise for the girl.

OK, so girls says "Sorry, I have a boyfriend" You can say the following...

"Yeah, so what? maybe you need another one?"

"I'm not interested in him, I'm interested in you"

"Why are you telling me about your problems"

"I'm not looking for a 3some, but thanks for the offer"

"Good, he can he cook for us this week?"

Those are just a few examples. I can't take credit for all of them since these I learned from various sources. They however are no substitute for having the right attitude, skills and confidence around women.

If you're a single guy looking for girls and you're NOT hearing this line thrown at you on a weekly basis, it means you are not trying ANYTHING or maybe not even leaving the house to try and meet girls.

Have a good summer people!

Denny